Here are the Top 3 Questions:
- "Did you have fertility treatment for your kids?" - First of all it's none of your business, I don't ask you if you had a tummy tuck or a face lift! But I politely smile and say "NO, I didn't need any help in that department".
- "It's your own fault you have so many kids." - Hey, I didn't even know I was pregnant with twins the first time until I was 19-weeks along (knew I was pregnant, but no twins). But I guess I can take the blame, since it is my fault that I get pregnant easily, and it is my fault that I ovulate two eggs, and it is my fault that I got pregnant the second time while on birth control. I did not set out to have two sets of twins, but I am very lucky with fertility and am blessed to have 4 absolutely wonderful children! (Who, by the way, behave like angels, never cry, always smile don't throw their food, always let me sleep in...hahahahahahaha, I wish!)
- "Are they identical?" (about my girl/boy twins) - Seriously, this may be the most stupid question I get (and I'm sure other MOTs get about their G/B or B/G twins). It's a GIRL and a BOY, they CANNOT BE IDENTICAL...duh! But I usually politely smile and say "no, they're fraternal".